Saturday, 5 May 2012

A story of a Sufferer



I am going to tell you the true story of a girl. I knew her very well and in order to respect her feeling, I just want to share her false identity happened with her.


Name - Irawati
Age - Around 28-29 yrs
Class- Upper class family
Qualifications- Post graduate , Govt. employee now
Physical stature- Humped back, height- around 4.5-7 feet, 
                             Complexion - dark, Voice - Male like
Marital status - Married

Children - One Daughter
Husband - Mentally disturbed, have nothing to earn, belongs to poor class but terrific handsome.

Story : - 

She got married 5 years back. She is more talented but because of her physical stature, she wasn't considered as eligible for marriage. She was prepared to lead her life with her own caliber but her parents, for the sake of her security, tie her the wedding knot to a poor class boy. He was quite handsome, but idle and nothing to do of his own. The groom's parents for a fair dowry had agreed their boy to tie the knot with her.

Irawati's parents gave her a large amount of jewellery as dowry, thought that her in-laws will keep her happy.  But soon after the marriage, they got changed and started demanding more money and also told her do a job to arrange more money for them.  So she started to earn. Her in laws sent her husband to the firm where she is working to inquire that how much she earns and how much she hides in her earning. In addition to that her husband started humiliating her before her colleagues. Because of this, she left so many jobs. The humiliation to her grew higher, physically abused by her husband and in laws. 

They often drag her out of their house, even though they said that they have obliged her family otherwise no one was there to hold their daughter's hand and their boy is terrific handsome.
In midst of all these things, she became pregnant and one day, they physically assault her even in her pregnancy. She escaped from there and went to her parent’s house.

Her parents got fed up and filed a case against her in-laws. Her husband went to them and apologized for all his actions and took her back home after her delivery. She gave birth to a daughter but nothing had changed after that, even it became worsen then before. She also discovered that her husband was mentally disturbed by something and because of that, whenever he dragged her out, he apologized to her and wept bitterly before her for his act. But another moment he became as such. 

Finally she decided to leave him and prepared for the government job. After a long struggle, she become a government employee and got satisfied with that to bring up her child on her own caliber. Now, her in laws are forcing her to coming back, but she wants to lead her life of her own along with her child. But even then, she is still waiting for her husband to get recovered from his disorder. Because from any corner of her heart, she loves him. 

She says that "He too loves me but he is not able to judge what is wrong and what is right. I am praying to God for him every day."


6 comments:

Anonymous said...

hi..
Irawati firstofall congratulation's that u r settled in u r life and hope u are going to get u r husband back , because when we love some one with pure heart they can't go from our life. forget about the past and think about for a bright future

Vijay Sabapathi said...

I vl pray to God to get a life for her as she wishes. Hope she will be happy with her child now.

Anonymous said...

Surely she get her husband very soon...and of course they both will have good future....with their child...our almighty will bless them ....

shashank said...

Hats Off !!

kishore said...

brave women hats off!!

Anonymous said...

I am totally dishearted to read out the story of Irawati. But, would like to say that Irawati should never go to her husband because I think he obeys all the rules of his parents only and does not bother about her wife at all. Or 1 baat life me ab dhyan rakhna becoz now u r goernment servant....so they only love from your money and not from yrself at all. Husband ki beauty to kick out kro jb usne apki kabi ijjat hi nai ki..vo sirf 1 dramebaaz admi ha or kuch nahi. Agar Irawati dobara apne sasural chali gai..to shayad vo din uski zindagi ka sbse bura din hoga..Jaise Irawati k husband ne usko thukraya or bejjati ki ha open public me to mere khyal se Irawati ko to us se bhut nafrat honi chahiye.....Govt job ha apni daughter ko ache se padhaye likhae and kick out all relations with husband....mere khyal se divorce le lena chahiye..but Irawati ka husband usko ab divorce bhi nahi dega because she is earning a handsome salary...only for this....

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